Am I a narcissist if I am self focused, strive for perfection, tend?
A narcissist is someone that is singularly, or overwhelming focused on themselves. They have an inflated sense of worth (often undeserved), and generally outright dismiss any criticisms of their flawlessness. So long as you are receptive to contradictory views, dont spend your days fawning over yourself, and are able to care about others, youre fine.